I'm still on Week 1, and Brylee and Ian's rooms aren't supposed to be worked on until week 2. But minimizing being so emotionally and even physically draining, you gotta go where the energy leads. And it temporarily lead to the kids' rooms, namely their books, toys and Ian's clothes.
Kids' BooksI worked on the books in the living room which inevitably lead to the kids' books. The organizing book I read at Barnes last week made two excellent points to help on this.
- A large selection of books is not necessary with weekly visits to the library. Besides for a couple of Brylee's favorites, library books are her most read.
- Children's books should not be lined up library-style on a bookshelf. A 3-year-old can't read the spines and instead pulls them out to see the cover, often resulting in a mess that's difficult to correctly put away.
Kids ToysI followed the path in Brylee's room from books to toys. After several instances of finding Brylee's room in an absolute toy-covered mess, a month ago I cleaned up by throwing excess toys in a large tub (which turned into two) and put the others away in their appropriate places. Amazingly, she was playing with her toys more frequently, she didn't miss the tubbed ones, and her toy messes were never more than she could pick up on her own. Success!
It was time to go through these tubs, outing a few more toys using two more excellent points from previously mentioned organizing book:
- Limiting toys helps kids learn to share. Taking turns with what they have is more beneficial than giving each kid their own toy.
- Limiting toys helps them take better care of their things rather than teaching them to expect there will always be a replacement.
- Dolls: two dolls, a stroller, highchair and cradle, a bottle and change of clothes
- Play kitchen: a lidded tupperware full of play food, a re-purposed princess bag full of kitchen utensils, and an apron
- Dress-up: a couple skirts (she had 7!), play heels, tiara, rings, bracelets and necklaces
- Educational/miscellaneous toys: a bin of her favorite puzzles, coloring books and a small play piano
- Stuffed animals: her three favorites (a dog, a bear and Curious George)
Baby ClothesWe were fortunate to have lots of clothes handed down to us for Ian. I tried to be critical in the beginning, but still had an overwhelming amount of things tucked into his little closet space. I went through again, outing extras (will he really need 8 dress shirts when he's 12-months-old?) and items I simply won't dress him in. I also cut his blanket stash (we use the same 3 blankets anyway) down to two quilts (both made and labeled by special people) and 2 soft blankets. And, because I like the prefolds as burp cloths the most, our stash of burp cloths have been pretty well untouched, so those are being ousted as well.
Then, I had to get real about the clothes he's already grown out of and make a plan for the clothes he will grow out of. I think we might be done having kids, and if we had another there's no telling when that would happen or if it'd even be a boy. Also, the two newest additions to our siblings are/will be girls, so holding onto boy clothes does not seem necessary at this point. The current compromise is to keep the absolute favorites that are in great condition. Three overflowing tubs has been cut down to a tub of clothes to be grown into and a tub to hand down leaving an empty tub and no excess on top--yay! I can now see what items we're lacking in; although I took this photo while clothes were in the wash so some items are missing.
Daniel and I are currently in the 2-bedroom vs. 3-bedroom debate. My stance being: This reduction and organization would help Brylee and Ian to share a room harmoniously. Now to convince Daniel of that...
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